Why Do We Fret Over Hair Decisions?
I just had a funny conversation with a friend at work about hair, you know as women do all the time when they are trying to decide what to do with their hair, whether it’s how to do it for a special event, getting it colored or styled a different way, or getting a dramatically different hair cut or going really short for example.
We were laughing because it seems like it’s so much easier to make the decision for others than it is for yourself. She wanted to go much shorter, but said every time she tried she couldn’t go through with it. I totally get that. The shortest I ever had my hair was just above shoulder length and while I liked it at first, I missed my longer hair a few weeks later because it just felt like “home” to me since I’d had long hair my entire life. I guess long hair just makes me feel more feminine and when I had shorter hair for some reason I felt like I had to wear more makeup (silly I know) so that I would look more womanly.
There are some women that just look fantastic with short hair, and actually don’t look as good with longer hair. I’d say Rihanna, the pop singer, and Halle Berry are perfect examples of this, although both would still be undeniably gorgeous with long hair (and Halle currently has long hair). But they have such great bone structure and symmetry to their face that the shorter hair cut shows it off much more, while longer hair would hide this symmetry and chiseled feature.
Now, let’s talk about color. Color may be even more individually defnining than your haircut, so coloring is a really tough thing to go out on a limb with and be brave and daring fashionably speaking. The wildest I ever got was when I died my hair a light reddish blond-brown and cut if off to my shoulders. I felt like I looked “cooler” and more hip, but I didn’t feel like “me”. I guess it depends what your agenda is with your hair style, cut and color, but you should always keep it real and not too far out of your comfort zone if you don’t want weeks of regret. We’ve all gotten bad haircuts and know how long they take to grow out!

























